Wedding gift ideas for couples who live together

Engagements and weddings are obviously cause for celebration, but sometimes it can be hard to find the perfect gift for the happy couple

If the pair are moving in together, then there are likely lots of homeware gifts they’d love. But if they already live together, chances are they have the basics covered. So, to help you out in your gift hunting, we’ve pulled together some ideas, covering food, decor, self-care and more.

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Personalised Christmas tree ornament

christmas tree decorations with names and dates
Personalised tree ornaments from Etsy. Left: Mrs & Mrs Bennett decoration, £11.58; Right: Mr & Mrs Smith decoration, £8.96  

It’s nice to commemorate a first Christmas together as a married couple, and there are lots of beautiful Christmas tree decorations available on Etsy. Make the gift even more special by including their new married names and their wedding date.

ESPA Christmas Collection

ESPA Wellness Wonders Collection
ESPA Wellness Wonders Collection, £97.50 

Wedding planning is stressful business, so some wellness treats won’t go amiss! With a brand new collection out with a focus on rejuvenation throughout the winter months, this Wellness Wonders Collection from ESPA is perfect for gifting around Christmas.

For an even more relaxing experience, book them a spa treatment to enjoy in person ahead of or after the wedding!

Personalised song coasters

vinyl record shaped coasters
Personalised Vinyl Record Beer Mat Coasters, pack of four,£14

These novelty record coasters from Not On The High Street can be personalised with a colour, song title and artist. Pay tribute to the first dance and any other notable songs from the wedding for the couple to proudly display in their home.

A mini replica of the wedding venue

small-scale model of a building
Small-scale model of Barnbougle Castle, £65  (Photography: Fletcher Joseph)

This sweet keepsake perfectly captures the happy couple’s wedding venue in miniature form! The architectural models created by Vennu replicate every intricate detail.

Aja Botanicals ‘Hello, I Love You’ candle

AJA Botanicals Hello, I Love You candle
Aja Botanicals, Hello, I Love You candle, £125 

When it comes to gifts, you can’t go wrong with a candle! This Hello, I Love You candle from Aja Botanicals has a delicious floral scent, and is made with essential oils of bergamot, geranium and frankincense, with a 50 hour burn time.

The Face Planner

The Face Planner skincare products
The Essentials Edit, The Face Planner, £125, provides a 30-day luxury skincare ritual

For best results, you’ll need to gift this before the wedding day. With three month and one month skincare plans available from The Face Planner, this would make a great engagement present or early wedding gift.

Both brides and grooms can benefit from the products, which were made specifically to prepare your skin for a special event.

Emma’s Magic Designs

drawing of House for an Art Lover in a wooden frame
Illustration of House For An Art Lover by Emma’s Magic Designs

Get a bespoke illustration of the wedding venue from Emma’s Magic Designs! As well as providing venue illustrations for wedding stationery, you can get an A4 digital illustration of the venue which would make a beautiful keepsake.

Cooking kits

receipe kits for making ramen and sushi
Sous Chef recipe kits. Left: Japanese Ramen Bowl Set, £45; Right: Deluxe Sushi Set, £45

For a foodie couple, or if they’re trying to expand their food horizons, there are plenty of lovely recipe kits from Sous Chef to choose from. With a variety of cuisines from sushi to paella to pasta making, all taste buds are covered!

Personalised cushion

white cushions with names written on them in black text
Aye Do Gifts have a range of cushion designs to choose from. Left: Personalised Script Love Heart Cushion, £14.99; Right: Personalised Mr & Mrs Cushion, £14.99

For a personalised home item that goes beyond Christmastime, these neutral cream-coloured cushions will likely fit in with a couple’s decor. Or why not give a personalised cushion as an early gift so they can include it in their getting ready photos on the wedding morning?

Flower vases for all home decor styles

flower bouquets in glass and ceramic vases
Oliver Bonas vases Left: Peonia Lustre Pink & Orange Glass Vase, £29.50; Right: Holly Floral Ceramic Bud Vases Set of Two, £24.50

A vase is a nice touch in any home and there’s the option to buy something simple and neutral that works in any space. Or if you know the couple’s home decor style you could find something that perfectly ties into their colour scheme.

Flower subscription

two flower bouquets in glass vases
A few of the bouquets on offer at Freddie’s Flowers. Left: Scrumdiddlyumptuous, £35 per box; Right: Polar Express, £35 per box

Now for something to put in the new vase… There are plenty of florists in the UK who offer subscriptions and you can set this up for someone else up as a gift.

For example, Freddie’s Flowers offers three different sizes of bouquets and lets you choose the frequency, from two deliveries in one month, to one delivery every month for a year.

Personalised name doormat

door mat with 'The Kelly's' written on the front
Personalised name doormat from Etsy, £16.99

Assuming the newlyweds now have the same last name, a personalised doormat is a lovely way to welcome people into their home. With lots of different styles to choose from, you can find a design that fits their style (and will keep the postman right when delivering letters!)

Date night idea cards

pack of 'date night cards' in a dark blue box
For a bit of inspiration, pick up these Deluxe Date Night Cards, £20 from Not On The High Street

Once the excitement of the wedding is over, the newlyweds might find themselves at a loss without wedding planning filling their time. To get married life off to a fun start, these date night cards have enough suggestions for a date every day for one year.

A photo frame for wedding pictures

Three Mother-of-Pearl Picture Frames in different sizes
With an iridescent white colour, these Anthropologie frames give off wedding vibes. Mother-of-Pearl Picture Frame, £20-£32 depending on size

After such a special day, the newlyweds will surely want a few photos of their wedding on display. You can gift them a photo frame on it’s own for them to fill or if you have a nice snap together from the big day it would be sweet to include that.

Wine subscription

savage vines wine box next to three bottles of wine
Savage Vines’ Monthly Wine Subscription, from £34.95/month

If you know a couple who is looking to get into wine, you can’t go wrong with this award-winning wine subscription from Savage Vines.

You can choose how many bottles to include a month, how long to run the subscription for, as well as whether you’d like all red, all white or a mix of both.

Gift an experience

steak and glasses of wine on a table, and two yellow cocktails on a bar
London Steak House dining experience from Virgin Experience Days

There are some couples who really don’t need any more stuff, and some who insist that your presence on their wedding day is better than presents. But if you’d still like to give them something special, why not choose an experience?

From restaurant vouchers, to spa days and even ziplining activities, there’s something to suit every couple. Virgin Experience Gifts has a handy guide of options which are perfect for couples to enjoy.

If you can’t choose, Virgin Experience Days also offer gift cards and vouchers which gives the couple freedom to book whatever they fancy.

Good luck shopping!

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